Decisions are never easy. How to make the right for decision for everyone is even harder.
You know I am right – if it was easy then we would make them more often.
I am faced with a decision at the moment and in the scheme of things it isn’t that huge however it is a very emotional issue and I am flip flopping all over the place.
One day I am going to do it and then the next day I am not going to do it. Do you ever feel the same? How do you make the decision?
Is it a toss of the coin?
I wish it was easier.
Yes I’ve done the pros and cons list too.
It is harder when emotions are involved and for me this issue is very emotional. I want to do the right thing by everyone however doing the right thing by others will mean that it isn’t right for me.
Yes I should just suck it up and get on with it ……
Have you ever been in the same position?
I can honestly say I am stuck on this one. I want to but I don’t want to.
I know I could but it will hurt to do it and I just don’t want to go through the hurt.
I know I am not making much sense and in a year’s time it wont matter anyway.
It will be forgotten.
It’s just that I am really stuck on this one.
It matters to me probably more than it matters to anyone else.
I will be damned if I do and damned if I don’t.
So what do I do?
No person is an Island. You don’t have to do this alone.
I am going to talk to the others involved and let them know my feelings and then take my cue from them.
I am making too much of this and no one else will be worried about it.
Maybe just maybe someone else will make the decision for me. Yes I know that is a cop out. However sometimes the decisions are just too tough and we need to take a step back and let others help us out.
You never know it may only be a big deal for me and I just might be making a mountain out of a molehill.
The trouble with making an emotional decision is that you are only going off your emotions not others – you don’t know what they are feeling. They might not even be thinking the same way as you. It just might not matter to them.
Remember that old saying “Don’t assume – because when you assume you make an ass out of u and me”.
So I will ask advice from others involved.
Whew I feel better already just talking about it and having a clear plan of action has really helped. You don’t have to do this alone, you don’t have to do anything alone especially caring.
It must be true – a trouble shared is a trouble halved….
